{"id":2454,"date":"2021-04-19T06:09:50","date_gmt":"2021-04-19T06:09:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vms.edu.in\/joka\/joka\/?p=2454"},"modified":"2021-04-26T05:21:11","modified_gmt":"2021-04-26T05:21:11","slug":"to-be-or-not-to-be-a-perfect-parent-a-real-parent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vms.edu.in\/joka\/to-be-or-not-to-be-a-perfect-parent-a-real-parent\/","title":{"rendered":"TO BE OR NOT TO BE\u2026 A PERFECT PARENT\/ A REAL PARENT!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Supposedly, by the time a parent realizes that he\/she was a perfect or a real parent, probably the child has already grown up and is getting ready to be a parent himself\/herself. It\u2019s no denying the fact that &nbsp;raising today\u2019s kids is quite a daunting task. The choices are conflicting and the demands are high. Is there any short cut formula from the experts as how to raise a confident, successful <strong>\u2018Super kid<\/strong>. Well, it is <strong>you to think and not me to answer<\/strong>! Throughout the act of parenting, we the parents, try balancing priorities, juggling responsibilities, quickly flipping between the needs of our children, other family members and ourselves. We remain at the disposal of our kids, with our unique authoritative, democratic or laissez-faire parenting style. Whatever may be our approach, we try to to be available 24&#215;7 for our kids in the best possible manner. We focus on encouragement over praise, cooperation over obedience, consequences over punishment and sacrifices over unconditional love. We are busy surfing the internet to get the best possible parenting strategies to nurture a physically healthy, emotionally mature, technologically sound and socially adjusted perfect child.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/vms.edu.in\/joka\/joka\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/360_F_226264430_tpbRiDAlDzICGTEEwRMNdz6o2xGXtS3c.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2458\" srcset=\"https:\/\/vms.edu.in\/joka\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/360_F_226264430_tpbRiDAlDzICGTEEwRMNdz6o2xGXtS3c.jpg 600w, https:\/\/vms.edu.in\/joka\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/360_F_226264430_tpbRiDAlDzICGTEEwRMNdz6o2xGXtS3c-300x180.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, the developmental psychologists are of the opinion that each child is unique with his own potentials and weaknesses. He \/she grows as per his\/her intellectual and cognitive capacities. These abilities are genetically inherited as well as environmentally modified. It is very important to be aware of a child\u2019s nature to nurture him\/her. There are certain ground rules of parenting which has been proved to be quite effective in raising a good human being. <strong>Want to know them\u2026.then follow our blog posts.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u2018WHILE WE TRY TO TEACH OUR CHILDREN ALL ABOUT LIFE,<\/strong> <strong>OUR CHILDREN TEACHES US WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"704\" height=\"396\" src=\"https:\/\/vms.edu.in\/joka\/joka\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/5f39f3a0-e361-4be8-b9bd-e7e094ae6811_1573525237.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2462\" srcset=\"https:\/\/vms.edu.in\/joka\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/5f39f3a0-e361-4be8-b9bd-e7e094ae6811_1573525237.jpeg 704w, https:\/\/vms.edu.in\/joka\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/5f39f3a0-e361-4be8-b9bd-e7e094ae6811_1573525237-300x169.jpeg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 704px) 100vw, 704px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Thank you Readers\u2026<\/strong>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Supposedly, by the time a parent realizes that he\/she was&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2467,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[55],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2454","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-parenting"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>TO BE OR NOT TO BE\u2026 A PERFECT PARENT\/ A REAL PARENT! 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